Friday, February 23, 2018

homeschool week one: we did it!

Back to homeschool!  It was a sweet first week and I'm so thankful to call these people my students :)


As Matt says, "Enrollment is up at our little academy and we aren't adding any staff!"  So I've got a few things to figure out as we transition to 5 at the homeschool desks :) We walked into this week nice and slow.  Math, a little spelling/handwriting, and a whole lot of Charlie and the Chocolate Factory.  We started Charlie on Monday and finished before lunch today.  It was the perfect read-aloud start and exactly what is sweeter than a roomful of sibs listening and laughing together?

But read-aloud isn't going to get us through the entire semester, and we will be adding to the course load each week until we ramp up to full speed.  In the meantime I'm thankful for a few weeks to adjust expectations (mine and everyone else's) as we get started in this new phase.

With an imminent move (unless a miracle happens we are looking at moving to a new apartment by early June) I'm not making any major changes to the schooling layout.

My big kids moved right back into their desk area on the school porch.


These girls are tackling a huge math text this year!


And I set my two new students up at the kitchen table - strategically placed at opposite ends for maximum concentration potential :)


One thing I tried this week and I'm definitely keeping is that each boy is assigned a "sister" for the week.  My vision for this is that there would be 15-30 minutes of content (some days? most days?) where the boys work alongside a sister.  This gives me a chance to work individually with someone else, and gives the girls a chance to develop some teaching skills too (how to correct, how to encourage, how to challenge, how to motivate...).

Lydia already made up a little sight word flash card game for Luke.  And while there are definitely times that no one will settle for anyone other than Mom, both these guys are pretty smitten with the big sisters too.


Here's to week two!

Sunday, February 18, 2018

helping his mama

This boy right here?  He's one of my favorites!


And one day I hope God gives him the gift of making some other woman very happy when she realizes how his handy-man skills bless her household!  He cannot stay away from a tool!  And with his new birthday tool set he is ready to work!

Yesterday he tightened the screws on one of my homeschool filing racks.  He was proud as a peacock and walked around the house saying, "If you want something fixed I'm right on the double."  {his slightly altered version of "be there on the double" that I love more than the original.}

I was bursting with pride, my little guy already a helper.  Then I heard Julianna say "JP, I'm not sure momma wants you to fix that."  Yep, he still needs a little guidance and a tool-carrying John Paul is half blessing, half risk factor around this household. ha!  But I'm excited to see where this personality bent leads my little man.

Saturday, February 17, 2018

Whew! We made it!

Almost 8 weeks after we moved out of our Grand Forks home we have finally landed somewhere permanent!  HOME AGAIN!

We got in mid-afternoon on Tuesday and the past few days have been super full.  Mostly of good things and happy re-unitings (with people and places and food and memories and roller blades) but also a few reality checks (has my washer always sounded like a helicopter? was the dryer really this slow? is the sky usually this gray?).  Oh, and Julianna's "I knew we were home when I smelled the air" comment.... "home" smells like air pollution?!?  yikes.

But mostly it's been full of amazing-ness, so good to be back.


It's also been full of roller blades :). And everyone loves it the most when Daddy gets out there too!


When they aren't playing roller hockey they are building Legos.


I've been baking (6 loads of bread and counting) and washing laundry (yesterday I finally got to the pile of clothes we wore in San Francisco in late January!) and shopping (hello empty fridge and pantry... going to need to fix that).  Matt's busied himself trying to register with the local police, pay our electricity bill, get cash from the bank, and catch up on the thousand details that get left behind when life hits the road.   Simple tasks take a long time, and traffic is crazy, and the internet is slow and we are re-adjusting our expectations to our current reality.  One day at a time!

{I'm going to back-post a few things from the first half of February so stay tuned!}

Tuesday, February 13, 2018

Daddy days (in Bangkok)

So on the drive north we mostly slept




And also got a very discouraging phone call that Matt's flight was delayed.  Oh I was so so so sad.  And feeling like this was just not fair!  We hadn't seen him in 12 days and he was stuck at an airport!  


So we checked in and checked out our view (of the Chao Praya River) and went to get lunch and killed time in the room trying to watch the Olympics (no luck, but we channel surfed Thai and international television for a good long while before calling it quits).  And then finally! 


The boys were wrestling with Daddy on the hotel bed about six minutes after he walked in the door!  It was a great time reconnecting and our little ship just sails smoother with Daddy at the helm! 


The next morning we woke to gorgeous skies and a day to kill in Bangkok!  We bought some breakfast at 7-11 and found a quiet spot by the river to enjoy.  Then it was off to explore - Lumphini Park, a snake farm (I skipped this one but the kids and Matt watched them extract venom from poisonous snakes) and then a late afternoon skytrain to hotel river taxi adventure. 


It's a busy river and captures your attention.  I smiled all day just glad to be with my man again!



Sunday, February 11, 2018

Jan 31 - Feb 11 (aka we miss Daddy)

On January 31st the kids and I said goodbye to Matt and flew south.  He had many many days of work ahead, and instead of attempting to do hotel-conference-life as a (essentially) single parent, we decided the best option for the family was for the kids and I to re-locate to a retreat center.


These guys just get more fun as the years pile up.  One short flight and one long drive and we were there!  

We filled our days with swimming and beaching and card-playing.  It really was a sweet spot to be.  But man we missed Matt.  


Fruit shake consumption was at an all-time high!  The little guys zipped through their allowance in record time :) 


Apart from one rainy day we had hot sunshine day-after-day.  I suggested these guys cool off with a "water picnic".   Fridge chilled water is so refreshing! 


A highlight of our time here is always the other families - some old friends and some new acquaintances.  This year the theme seemed to be football :) 


We read so many books!  I read Esperanza Rising to the big kids at the same time I was reading The Worst Hard Time.  It was neat to read these two books - set in the same time period - simultaneously.  Both were excellent.  After Esperanza Rising the bigs and I got hooked on The Penderwicks! We laugh out loud - those girls are so funny!!  And I read Born a Crime (filled with crass language, but so insightful, I liked it despite the language issue) and Small Great Things (loved loved loved it!) too.  


These four girls were quite the pack - always together, always finding something fun to do!


The pool was our typical morning spot, and afternoons we hit the beach (with a late pool trip to help wash off all the sand!)


Hermit crab races :) 


and a pretty seashore with Thai fishing boat in the background :) 


Our days passed quickly and we slept like rocks and I was thankful to be in such a sweet spot.  And really thankful the day we loaded the van and headed to Bangkok, eager to meet up with Matt!